There is a common misconception that girls from privileged backgrounds do not experience these issues. However, higher-class girls often face these challenges even more severely. The social and family pressures in their lives are immense, stifling their freedom and suppressing their needs and desires. Many high-class girls bottle up their feelings and desires, leading to frustration, anger, disappointment, and other mental health issues.

Girls derive their personality from three fundamental pillars of life: family, society, and desires.

Family: A girl's way of life are significantly shaped by her parents and family. In many conservative families, dad figures impose their views on girls from an early age, causing a mismatch between the girl's desires and the family's expectations. This leads to bottled-up feelings and anger, often resulting in strained relationships with parents. Many girls end up hating their dads because of this.

Society: Society plays a crucial role in shaping a girl's personality. Social circles are often formed based on wealth, race, and social status, leading to exclusion and discrimination. Girls raised in conservative social circles may develop conflicting feelings, finding themselves attracted to those outside their social group while being pressured to conform to societal norms. This mental confusion can lead to frustration and misdirected feelings. Instead of realizing their hate towards society, they misinterpret their feelings and subconsciously convert their attraction to other races into hate towards those races.

Desires: Girls are naturally emotional and passionate, with adventurous minds. However, from childhood, they are often taught to suppress their desires in a male-dominated society. This suppression leads to low self-esteem and self-hate, as girls fear their own desires and the societal repercussions of expressing them. This fear is converted to fear of the outsider or other race.

If any one of these pillars is conservative, it corrupts the other pillars, creating a cycle of increasing conservatism. Girls stuck in such situations tend to block all their emotional, and physical desires, deeply impacting their dating lives. They may seem happy on the surface but are internally starved for emotional, and physical satisfaction.

However, there is hope! Dating can act as a bridge between a girl's desires and the pillars of her life. By recognizing that the root of her unhappiness lies in the conservative pillars, a girl can begin to transform them. Using her dating life as a tool, she can break free from these constraints and build new, more fulfilling pillars based on her true desires.

At Spadequeen, we have thoroughly researched this process and found it to be transformative. Our programs not only improve dating lives but also completely change personalities and mindsets. Girls who complete our programs become happier, healthier, and more satisfied with their lives, leading to overall success and well-being. Spadequeen also provides a healthy community of like-minded queens.