Success Stories

SpadeQueen has flourished through the gratitude and support of our queens, who credit us for fulfilling their desires. Many express their appreciation by making generous donations(some in millions), helping to sustain our mission and support future SpadeQueens.

We gained insights into some of our queens' journeys, conducted by our marketing division. Check them out below.

Rebecca T

Profession: Real estate investor

Age on interview day: 27 years

Date Rebecca joined Spadequeen: 7 Feb, 2019

Date of interview: 3 Mar, 2023

Location: Rebecca's family hotel in California

Setting: Rebecca graciously invited us to stay at her family's hotel for the interview.

Interviewer: Amelia Wilson(Sr. Marketing Manager at Spadequeen)

Photo: Taken during a walk in the hotel

Since joining Spadequeen, Rebecca has generously donated nearly 2 million (1,800,000) to support our mission - As of May 2024.

How did you find Spadequeen?

  • I was sitting at a coffee shop reading a book on Toxic Relationships. A lady approached me and said she noticed the book I was reading. She asked me if I was doing okay. We started chatting, and I opened up about my dating life problems. She gave me some good tips and informed me that she worked as a scout for an organization that helps women improve their dating lives. She offered to let me join the Spadequeen therapy program. She was very convincing, so I joined. And it changed my life forever. big smile and gasps

What happened in the therapy?

  • After a couple of sessions, the therapist realized that I found BLKs guys scary and didn't date them. Haha, I know I sound conservative. But slowly, the therapy helped me realize that deep down, I yearned for BLKs. The blocked feelings had turned into fear. The therapist helped me convert that fear back to passion. Felt like she installed a new brain in me. I started finding BLK guys the hottest.

Were you still in your old relationship when you went out with the first BLK guy?

  • Laughs! Next question, please!

Haha, you sassy girl! What happened to your existing relationship afterwards?

  • Don't try to trick me! Laughs!

What is your favorite thing about Spadequeen?

  • Of course its the Queen's gala! I made some wonderful, like-minded friends there! I was so impressed with the event's organization that I donated 100,000 during the event itself.

Stephanie B

Profession: Family business

Age on interview day: 28 years

Date Steph joined Spadequeen: 22 Nov, 2018

Date of interview: 26 Mar, 2023

Setting: Steph took out time from her busy workday for the interview. We walked to a more quiet place.

Location: Walk near Stephanie's New York Office

Interviewer: Shirley Davis (Media Strategist at Spadequeen)

Photo: Taken during the walk

Since joining Spadequeen, Steph has generously donated more than 3 million to support our mission at Spadequeen - As of May 2024.

Can you share your experience growing up in Dallas?

  • Going there already, huh?! *Laughs* Everyone knows that Dallas is known for its conservative society, and my family was no exception. They were frankly, bit racist. *Pauses* Make that spittin racist! Hahaha! Making BLK friends was a big NO NO! I even slapped a BLK guy who approached me when I was in college. Not at all proud of that now! And don't ask me for details. *Guilty Smile*

How did you end up funding Spadequeen?

  • I was attending an annual funding event at my social club and saw the Spadequeen booth. They were trying to raise money for free therapy for women with family issues. Coincidentally, I was dealing with some dad issues back then. So I felt the emotional need to fund them. I decided to go for their three-day trial therapy before I funded them. I loved their session! *excited* Not only was I convinced to fund them, but the therapy fundamentally changed my thinking. To summarize, the therapy helped me realize that I hated my dad because he had brainwashed me into a racist over the years.

Did you take more therapy sessions?

  • Of course I did! It helped me explore my deepest desires and break free from my dad's imposed mentality. The therapy helped me realize the things that BLK guys can offer exclusively.

Does your dad know about your new love for BLK guys?

  • No. Initially, I wanted to tell him and make him angry. But the Spadequeen trainer advised me that keeping him in the dark would be best. So that he wouldn't cut me off financially. Haha! Just being practical.

How did you feel after dating the first BLK guy?

  • I felt like all my hormones were surging, and my face was glowing! Spadequeen for life!

Violette F

Profession: Fund Manager at the Non-Profit Division of a Family Business

Age on the interview day: 25 years

Date Violette joined Spadequeen: 13 Jan, 2022

Date of interview: 9 Oct, 2023

Location: Park near Violette's house

Interviewer: Amelia Wilson(Sr. Marketing Manager at Spadequeen)

Photo: Violette shying away from a photo

After some convincing, Violette has graciously agreed to let us share her interview and photo (partial face) on Spadequeen.

As of January 2024, Violette has committed to generously donating $200,000 annually to support our mission at Spadequeen.

Why did you stay away from BLK guys?

  • I don't want to brag, but I come from a wealthy family, and my dad is very well-known in our city. Being seen with a BLK person was not good for the family image.

Which city is that, and what was your family business?

  • Can't reveal that. I still need to protect the family image. *Gives nervous grin*

How did your friends view BLK guys?

  • Most of my friends thought that BLK guys would always remain unpolished, even if they were rich.

When did you realize your love for BK guys?

  • I always knew I liked BLK guys and often fantasized about them. But societal pressure kept me away.

How did you end up becoming a Spadequeen?

  • About a year ago, I was attending a conference in Vegas. Later that night, I decided to go to a dance club alone. There, a BLK guy offered me a drink. Being away from my city, I took the chance to chat with him. He sensed my interest but also my hesitation. He asked me, if it was socially tough growing up in a wealthy family. For the first time, someone understood my pain. He introduced himself as a BLK Lord (top Knight at Spadequeen, let’s call him Mr. X) at SpadeQueen. He explained that SpadeQueen helps women like me deal with such social pressures and gave me a contact. He recommended I join their therapy.

Did you join the therapy?

  • Initially, I brushed it off. A few days later, the advisor called and flew to my city to meet me, pushed by Mr. X. Impressed by their dedication, I joined the therapy. Recognizing my specific personality, the therapist recommended an gold training. It had high-fees, which wasn't an issue for me.

Sorry to interrupt, but why were you given gold training after your therapy?

  • The therapist realized that I was submissive by nature, but the power of my wealth had suppressed my submissive side. I needed a dominating partner to restore the balance. And also Mr. X pushed for it.

How was the gold training?

  • Initially, the training was like therapy, focusing on reforming my mind. But it got hard towards the end. I was commanded to complete the most disgusting tasks by Mr. X, and I just had to do them. But soon, I started loving the process. My mind no longer felt the burden of wealth and power. I became more submissive.

Did you find the right partner after gold training?

  • Yes, Mr. X, accepted me as his sub. Relief and smile on face!